Do you think my ex husbands family really meant this?
I was married to man who essentially used me to obtain a green card in the states a number of years ago. Our marriage was real in my eyes and I tried very hard to make it work. Only one trying doesn’t do it as you know.
After 4 years of marriage, this man on Christmas Eve day ( 05) told me he wanted a divorce, and that he had plans to go out drinking with his brother and another guy friend. He told me he couldn’t take care of me ever and wanted “out”. Essentially many lies came to the surface. He had accounts with hidden funds, he was working for a relative who was paying him a low wage but floating funds un taxed above it, I found about $3000 in cash in his “safe” which I picked open with the help of a locksmith, and I found out he had an apartment waiting to rent with another immigrant from the UK. I was the one who paid our mortgage, bought groceries and took care of the house and this is what I found out… he openly admitted after the fact he used me, and did not w
8 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
Additional Details
8 hours ago
want to be married and wished to return to his “single life.” It was granted a divorce and I moved on.. not to see or hear from the ex since the day he came to get his clothes off my front porch.
I ran into an Uncle of his recently. He told me he was not ever wishing to get involved with this, but said he was “not proud” of what his nephew had done and always liked me. He said he always wondered what happend to me, and that the husband painted a pretty ugly picture of what happend. DO you think the Uncle was embarassed of the past escapades? I told him I was ok, but after seeing this family member of the ex alot of old memories not so good has come to surface!
Report It
( PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS SHOULD OF READ THAT MY THE UNCLE STATED THAT MY EX DIDN’T PAINT A BAD PICTURE OF ME) The Uncle gave me his cell phone # and asked me to call anytime for drinks with me and my new husband… Is this guy being genuine?
More questions & answers:
- Do you think my Ex Husbands family member meant this?
- Do you think the ex husbands family member mean this?
- An Ex question.My ex I dated for 6 years got in a car wreck.We had been broke up six months?
- Am I wrong? I rent a house out to an elderly lady who has the support of a close family. She’s a good tenant
- MEN:Why are you OFFENDED by A WOMAN LOCKSMITH?
By . Comment.
Comments on Do you think my ex husbands family really meant this? »
What a crappy situation. I’m sorry.
However, I don’t think your ex-husband’s uncle really has any reason to lie to you about his feelings at this point. I think if he didn’t want anything to do with you, he just wouldn’t have given you his phone number.
Good luck!
I think he was just being nice. If he really wanted to foster a relationship with you then he could have looked you up. It was just a way to end the conversation. I think what he said was probably true but I doubt he wants to have anything more.
WHO CARES??? It’s been over two years since he broke the news to you. Just put it behind you. Step over it like it’s dog sh**! Seriously you nee dto move on with your life. There is such a thing as Karma. Your ex and his family will get theirs sooner or later.
Personally I wouldn’t call the uncle or hang out with him but I would take his word at face value and agree that the ex is an asshole.
If the # he gave you is real then yeah he’s being real! If not he would have given you a fake # or no # at all…piece of advice though I would just stay away from the whole family you have a new life now with new family members,you should concentrate on them now.
Sorry to hear of what happened to you. Honestly, I wouldn’t call. I feel it’s best to put the past in the past. Seeing this uncle will no doubt bring upon memories I’m sure you care not to think about anymore. Whether this uncle was genuine or not, just move on. No need to have any connection whatsoever to the former man who told you nothing but lies, used you, and made you to look like the bad person. Life’s too short to waste a single moment on past pain when it belongs NO WHERE in your present life and future.
Good luck to you.