February 13, 2008

MEN:Why are you OFFENDED by A WOMAN LOCKSMITH?



BaDonkaDonk asked:

I am a AUTO,RESIDENTIAL AND SAFE AND VAULTS LOCKSMITH.I graduated w/top honors from college to learn this to help people.
I am LICENCED,BONDED AND INSURED.
My husband who is also a locksmith doesn't have a problem with it except for the fact I make more money than he does.
MY BROTHER-IN-LAW AND UNCLE ARE LOCKSMITHS.THEY DON'T LIKE IT,THEY SAY"MEN SHOULD BE LOCKSMITHS.
are they offended that i make more money than them?or is it an EGO ISSUE?
Also customers(men) don"t like the idea of a woman doing this type of work.I have heard some ungodly rude comments and remarks.I have gotten to the point if a man says something stupid to me,my response is:I HAVE MY KEYS,DO YOU WANT YOURS?
men,pls tell me why there is such an issue here?
thank you for your time!!

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Dana Katherine @ 10:41 am

Some men may be insecure. Perhaps it is emasculating for them to see a women competently performing a job that they themselves feel that they should be able to do, as a man. I think it is an ego thing, like when my boyfriend can't get the pasta sauce jar open and I walk by and open it for him. Men want to be the stronger ones, and they want to be the ones getting people (women) out of a predicament, not the other way around. It's a sign of immaturity and insecurity.

keypointist @ 9:04 am

It probably goes back to the days of chastity belts. We didn't want women to have the knowledge to get out of them.

Laughing Man Copycat @ 8:13 pm

I don't know about everyone else…but a woman locksmith is a turn on for me. I know you're married, but a woman lock picker sounds sexy to me.

goku9k1 @ 2:38 pm

One it makes men feel less handy.
Two it gives you access to mens houses and cars a lot more. So cheating on you is kind of a bad idea.
Three if someone does cheat on you, well your not going to have a problem ransacking the house or car on the inside rather than the eggs that are sometimes busted on the outside.

Bohdisatva @ 5:23 am

Ok its the "one of the guys syndrome". Amongst many male groups being able to pick locks and hot wire cars is a measure of maleness.

To be out done by a woman will only dent their ego's further.

Why anyone would think they have some inherent natural ability to pick locks is beyond me but I can do it ;-)

The Prof @ 6:07 pm

This is easy… most men need a locksmith when they have…locked their keys in car/house…. or lost their keys….or are kicking someone out of the house.

This can be embarrassing. So when a woman shows up they are embarrassed!

This is not a good reason… but most likely THE reason.

Sandy @ 3:28 pm

A woman with power tools and the knowledge to use them is Schweet!
Ok, all kidding aside, that is life , in the Christian, Judeo , Muslim or whatever politic,religion that is in effect, the guys at least want to think they are some higher form of being. I do not agree with this nor do I ascribe to such petty insecurities.
If a person can make a key or fix a lock that person is a locksmith. Pretty simple logic there.
I have been with women in situations that alot of the guys that I know would not be able to cope with. We all bleed blood, we all have skin, we all have brains, some use them.
I prefer to be around the people that use there minds.

ray m @ 7:52 am

if you love your job do it ..if you get flack , do it . Take no notice gal.. They are jelous.. Anyway if they are trouble lockem up..lol,

male view ok

Eric @ 3:19 pm

there are already some great answers here, so let me just add what hasn't been mentioned here: the Freudian angle. Guys like their penises and they prefer women stick to having vaginas. You get to carry around a big set of penises, and can pick any hole you see fit. That leaves a man feeling pretty inadequate with just his one that he only gets in a few holes a week if he's lucky. I imagine the rude comments go along this line.

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